I'm going to stay in the hotel near the Lingzhi station. how to get from there to the Xiaomeisha?

You can take subway Huanzhong Line from Lingzhi to Yijingtai. After arrival, walk southeast for about 120 yards to Fengjingtai stop to take bus 103 or 103b, and then you will reach the destination.
It is also ok to go by taxi. The taxi fare would be around CNY160.