I am male and born in 19 may 1988. Is it a good year for me?

You are Earth Dragon. It is true that the last three years you were prone to have relationship problems. Since you didn’t mention your partner’s date of birth I cannot comment if it is because of you, or it is because of her, or it is because the incompatibility between you two. But I can tell you that you will definitely benefit from the next two years, as these years are both fire and you are earth.
Earth does always benefit from fire, and this also is true when you are dealing with people born in fire years. You always stand to benefit from them. Good luck to you!