I'm a pig my bf is a snake. 4 yr in a relationship and have 1 kid.

Elise, what makes you think your relationship isn't well? Does he have someone else? If not, please be tolerant to your relationship. No lovers in the world can make their relationship always sweet and harmonious. Please think about your kid. Do you know that the new guy will love your kid as your BF?

I personally you should stop dating with the new guy before you end your relationship with your current BF. It isn't fair for them both. You need time to calm down and think about your current relationship. If you think there is no cure, then you may break up and make an agreement on how to raise your kid. After that, you can come together with the new guy.