hi i am a earth sheep born in the morning on 7th feb 1979i have recently fallen

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Hi i am a earth sheep born in the morning on 7th feb 1979 and i have recently fallen beyond all resononing in love with a fire dragon he is 20th August 1976.(6 months ago) He loves me too that i don't doubt at all and my urge is to rush into a future together! (we are so close and passionate- a relationship neither of us have ever experienced before) to celebrate and he does too... the only reason i find my self approaching you to ask how will we thrive is his ex (who still has feelings for him) is my best friend a fire monkey (also birthday august) while i am married to a monkey - 25th dec 1968... I don't want to potentially destroy two lovely peoples lives without at least trying to have my eyes open!  ... i read so many different things about sheep and dragon- good bad ok... what do you feel?! (what we both know is neither of us find monkeys suit us as lovers)

Mrs.Sheila · Answer

It is lovely to be in love, all that excitement and danger of your situation. But come on she is your best friend and you do this. If its going to happen then he should leave her first and allow a decent amount of time before announcing your relationship if it lasts that long. How can you trust him or him trust you. Sounds to me like its just lust at the moment, without the honour and respect that you need for true love.

Ms.joanne · Answer

Thank you Mrs Shelia, however you missed the 'ex' part! they have been broken up for 2 years, she has a family with another man! she is just not letting go of him as she i feel selfishly sees him 'her back up, her plan b' and my marridge is unique ~ based on friendship not love... we were a business arrangement. So the only conflict is paperwork for me and burising a selfish (but someone i love dearly) ego and possessive ways

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