if you've been in a relationship for 8 years and you have to ask if its going anywhere. The answer is obviously not where you want it to go. Tell him where you want it to go. Be straighforward with him. Men don't usually read between the lines.

Jessica, it's time to move on and you know it. You started dating this guy at a very young age, & I'm sure he's sheltered you from dating anyone else since you've been with him for 8 years and no ring as of yet?? Quite frankly, you're being taken advantage of and you're allowing it. Move on honey, there's always better things waiting for you, you just have to let go of what's holding you back.