I recently went through a bad break up. I want to know what is the most compatible birthdate

If you read the compatibility table on this page at Love compatibility, you will find that the Rat has few choices of best partners, namely with Ox, Rabbit, Dragon and Goat. The last choice could also turn out to be the worst, so personally I don’t recommend it to you. The choice of an Ox lady for you, also vanishes, as it was proven by time that only Male Ox and female Rat marriages had survived. What's more, because your yearly element is Wood, you need to find a woman whose element is Water, to meet the requirements of a traditional marriage. A Wood Rabbit wouldn’t meet your requirement for the age group you asked to be around your age, namely 32. Let’s see if a woman born in the year of the Dragon will fit your requirements. A woman born in the year of the Earth Dragon (1988) would be good if her yearly element wouldn’t be Earth. She will find you too controlling since your element is Wood. Let’s go a bit further and see if a woman born in the year of the Water Monkey (1992). Our table shows that this astrological sign is complimentary to you. I believe it would be the best choice for you, as the yearly elements of Water and Wood are beneficial, and you could make a great couple. Your hour and minute of birth shows you will have a long life. Good luck.