I'm a sheep born 21st Aug 1991 and my bf of 5 years is born 20th Feb 1986 ( tiger ). I wonder how we

But, we went through hell a lot to better our relationship. We are still slowly, trying to teach and understand each other. I'll give a situation which recently happen to us. He planned an outing with his friends on a day when I needed him to be somewhere with me, and he still insist on going with his friends which they planned and keeps saying it’s a confirmed plan and couldn’t change blablabla. When I planned a confirmed date with him on a day his friends asked him out, he would tell me about that outing with his friends and how much he would want to go. So yeah..I got upset and I asked him, when you get married and have kids, your plans will always have to change. Then he said, “ I’m sorry I’m not perfect”. We argued through text and I literally wanted to hit his face with a huge flat rock if I meet him. I did went to see a fortune teller, she told me to not care about him and concentrate on myself. She also told me to restrain myself from men who are chasing me. So from that, in my mind, she'd want me to keep this fella. She told me that we’re somewhat…compatible in a way..something like yin yang..?? We're almost at our 6th year together. But we had gotten much better than before. Omg.. it was HELL… oh yeah, after the argument, he said sorry, which was very rare of him to say.
I can say, we are happy.  Married couples/couples will have their ups and downs…