The guy I am dating, we're an 80% match. It says we're a great pair but the thing is, we started off on the wrong foot and now it's a very rocky relationship.

For some reason both he and I are still willing to work at it but it doesn't seem like we are getting through. Maybe its because we are both really stubborn! Anyways, I don't really believe in stars aligning and what not to find your soul mate and stuff but I definitely do look at it with guidance. Now, I kind of play around with dates and what not, and if I was to find someone who is 4 years older than me, that person and I would a 90% match. Does that mean I should stop with my guy since he is only an 80% or should i stay and stick it out to see where it can lead? but now knowing that if i look for someone who is 4 years older than me,possibly we can be better suited for each other... if I stay with my guy, I'm always going to feel like, there is that possibility that I can find a more suited person for me. Does that make sense?!...what do you think!?