i am 85 born Ox and she is 88 born Dragon and we know each other since 8 yrs.

4 years we were in love and we broke up and the next 3 yrs we were in and out of our relation. past 1 yr, I am too much into her, realizing my mistakes and knowing the importance of relation. But she is not eager to enter into a relationship with me. I have been talking to the girl's mother for our marriage and her mother has asked me to stay positive and she would help us in getting married. As the compatibility too says, we will quarrel quiet often. Its is 100% true. We quarrel so very often but we find space and wrath in each other company. Also the match says 75% suited, so should we approach ahead?