I'm a Male Rat born Oct 17th 1963, remarried to divorced Female Rabbit born September 5th, 1963.

I like to understand issues to resolve and negotiate better outcomes, while she simply ignores any issue or me, walks away to calm down for whatever time she feels like, and never wants to talk about it again. We rarely have meaningful discussions, She is a very hard worker and normally unsatisfied with my efforts or reasoning. She finds it extremely difficult to work as a team.
I am unsure of our future together as a happy couple.