Can we be together?

Date of Birth
(Gregorian Calendar) HE: Jul. 31,1980 ME: Jun. 12,1986
Date of Birth
(Chinese Lunar Calendar) HE: Jun. 20,1980 (GENGSHEN Year) ME : May. 6,1986 (BINGYIN Year)

We both aren't extroverts but more rather introverts. After 16 year we are still not married and I am not sure what to do...I am not sure if my mind isn't just influenced by too romantic expectation from outside or if I should be grateful for the relationship