Going through an incredibly dark time as my lover of 8.5yr suddenly left me for another woman.

They met just over a month. He slept with her and then called me to say he's met someone else. I begged him to think about it. We were happy, rarely fought or argued. Ours was a long distance relationship. He took a few days to think abt it and gave his final verdict with a text message. I am so shattered.
My dob 8 apr 1971, time 1955, singapore