Ox (Jan 1st, 1986) / Rabbit (May 3rd, 1979). What do you think our chances of staying together are?

Leila, it's not as bad as you said. As long as you two are willing to make good communications and adjust yourselves, you are still able to have a satisfying relationship. Please do not think of zodiac compatibilities. What you should do is to work together to improve your relationship.