my name is michael from indonesia and i like to ask wedding date for me and my partner.

my dob is 9 may 1987, her is 9 august 1988. we plan to married on 9 jan 2016. but on 30 june 2015 her dad died. so people say that we must get married within 100 days or must wait for a year. can you give us a good date on september 2015?