My dob is 12/18/1982 and my husband is 07/13/1965, we got married 06/14/2009. Is that date lucky?

Annalie, is it very important to you? What makes you care about this too much? Is your marriage unhappy? Even your marriage is unhappy, you can not blame the wedding date. There some other factors.

After checking the Chinese Almanac, I find out that June 14 in 2009 isn't an auspicious date for wedding.

I would then have another wedding for the same person :)