I am a 11-16-66 horse been separated from emotional abusive 3-1-64 husband for six years.

Well, you’re suggested to contact with your husband and talk with him. Actually you two are well matched. So you should work together to find the hidden reasons between and try to solve them. Thus you may have a better marriage life.

I know we are well suited. but he uses marijuana to address his emotional struggles and bi-polar disorder. We are not well aligned with regard to spiritual choices and he makes it clear to me OVER and OVER how he cannot think like I do. He is very good at making my opinions and thoughts and choices WRONG. I may be able to have a relationship with him down the road but currently feel like we at least need a financial separation in order to make adult financial decisions with some clarity.

Further thoughts?

Sorry for this. Then maybe you two should separate for sometime to calm down and make things clear. Good luck to you!