I am a snake 12/7/1965 in search of my soul mate. is she the one?

My current relationship appear to be in question. During our three years together our relationship has been rather tomultuous . while there still being a great deal of passion for one another and still believe we're in love, this year weve had work very hard at it and have "locked horns" with each other to the point of where its beginning to erode the relationship, we're both very passionate people but dont see eye to eye on a lot of things which result in disagreement. Is this just a bad year for us ? should the relationship continue or will it continue to erode no matter how much we fight for it . she is a rat 9/29/1972.