I am a male ox married to a female dragon is this a good match because we argue a lot

As the Chinese Astrology shows, Chinese Ox and Dragon make for a hot-tempered pair. They may fight a lot, but they are both passionate, which is precisely what Dragon craves. They respect each other, even when they are fighting bitterly. Well, It helps if you each take a break from each other occasionally so your can gain perspective. If you keep in mind that your goals are similar, this helps immensely.