I am snake10-19-53 he is rat 12-17-48 how do we affect one another? conflict at first,far better now

Chinese Snake and Rat are not the best pairing in the zodiac. They are hot and heavy at first, but before long the heat is gone and they are left with coldness. They tend to fight a lot. Both are very intelligent, which makes the fights more hard hitting. When the pairing is a Snake woman and a Rat man, they both work diligently to make themselves comfortable financially. Being poor causes strife between them. If they can find a mutual interest to pursue, they will be much happier than if they can't.