I think I am 2 different signs

For many years I believe I was a tiger but yet I represent traits of an ox I have read that when you are born at the beginning of the year you will be given the year before the new year sign I feel I have both the traits of an ox and a tiger. My husband is a snake it says I am ox but we argue all the time yet we are very close as far aa spending a lot of intimate time together. He is often rude and very controlling and insecure very selfish and can be arrogant the thing is that I am in love with a horse or ram trait I am planning on leaving my husband what do u think?