

I recently visited China, (zhengzhou) where I had been emailing a lady a few months. She talked about marriage a lot, and even called me husband. She met me in Beijing and right off we ended up at the American Embassy, where I understood we were getting a marriage license and the ceremony would be later. we had a language problem, so when we arrived in Zhengzhou, she took me to a place to rent wedding things. I dissagreed and told her with a language translator, not to make any solid plans until I saw a lawyer to get a prenupual agreement. We then went to ma lawyers firm, but the price was too much. I then called my lawyer in USA, and he said not to marry until until I got back in USA, and a prenupual was signed. She claimed we were already married, and that Chinese customs a ceremony was not necessary. Is she right or wrong?