Can we make it work?

First, I wanted to say I love this site and chinese literature and landscapes.
So, I'm a rat and I like this guy, um, he's a dog. There's not only curltural differences in the middle, but also, he's very steady down, comfortable with himself and fatherly, while I'm not in that place right now, in many ways, I feel kind of lost. I always say I'm ready but I never do anything to get what I want. I hold myself back because I can't help feeling there's someone better out there, someone better than me, who deserved it more.