As a woman born 11/7/79 I am feeling more ready than I ever have to meet the right person...

I have a number of flirtations (nothing serious) and men approach me pretty often. Lately, a LOT. It's very rare that I reciprocate the interest, I simply don't date as I am waiting for the just-right person. I've been feeling interested in someone (male ox) lately, and while the flirting has been steady and delightful and he appears a great fit to my mind, he seems to be very astrologically incompatible when I do this research. Advice? Is this my year, is this the guy?