I have 2 suitors, which of them is compatible with me?

I was born Feb 5, 1983
One suitor born May 22, 1970. He doesn't talk to me much coz he is too busy in his shop. We don't have that much of conversation.
One is 47 or 48 yrs old, he doesn't want to tell me his birthday. He doesn't believe in religion and marriage. But he is sweet, romantic, very kind gentleman.
Who is more compatible with me? Soulmate?
Please help me on this.