Asked by Lana Va | Oct. 03, 2017 11:52
About:Chinese Zodiac Compatibility
Are we matching to be together?

Hi, i am a girl (01 December 1995) while the guy is (04 April 1996). We have known each other for about 5 years now, but we seldom text, can be counted as once in a blue moon. And so now that i think i like him since then, but i was in denial. If by chance, he likes me too, do we match to be together? Such as, dating or marriage.

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Answered by Erica from Australia | Oct. 05, 2017 07:48
Hi Lana. I'm going to take a slightly different tack in giving you a reading for both your Western zodiac AND Chinese zodiac, which I find usually makes a much more accurate result when mixed together. First of all, you are a Sagittarius Wood Pig, and your guy friend is an Aries Fire Rat. In terms of your western zodiac, Sagitarius and Aries go together well as you're both fire signs and your traits compliment each other, HOWEVER, both signs are very independent and so things will only work out if you both give each other the space to pursue your individual interests (this explains why you only occasionally text, too). Next, in terms of your elements, fire and wood compliment each other - in this match, you're generally quite supportive of your guy, and this is also mirrored by your western signs - as Sagittarius promotes Aries. A good sign! Next, we come to your chinese zodiac. These two animals are reasonably compatible, so things are looking pretty good on this front. However, here are some things to be aware of: Arguments can become quite volatile, as Rat won't back down if met with confrontation, and Pig is quite stubborn and quick to anger, so if it comes to this neither of you will be the winner in the situation. Secondly, money may be an issue, as Rat is thrifty and usually quite good with money, but Pig enjoys indulging and living comfortably, and this can lead to problems. On the plus side, both Rat and Pig are very self-sufficient (and Rat hates to be limited or confined by anything), and this further complimented by your western zodiac match. All in all, the two of you are a pretty good match, and things should work out well if you respect each other's space. Good luck! :)
Answered by Vlah from Dominica | Oct. 05, 2017 10:17
I feel you Margaret
Answered by Lana Va | Oct. 05, 2017 10:37
Thank you so much for the reading. He's the youngest one in his family and so am i. As i have never really dated any guys before, this made me scared yet wanting to know or maybe try to approach him again? But then, my guy friend and i are living in different states and i have only met him in person once. And most situations were awkward.. Is it weird for a girl like me to start approaching the guy first?
Answered by Erica from Australia | Oct. 06, 2017 07:22
No, it's not weird at all. :) If you're really interested in this guy, then I don't think there is any problem with you approaching him first; in fact, that sort of action is perfectly in line with you as a Sagittarius and Pig (which is a complimentary combination); you do best when you don't hold yourself back, and this is no exception.

If the two of you have a/any shared interest/s (which, as fire signs, you almost certainly do), that would be a good area to explore further when connecting with him (Sagittarius/Pig and Aries/Rat are both combinations that have a lot of passion for the things they're interested in), and having interests in common will go a way to smoothing over any nervousness/awkwardness that comes up when meeting, too.

Here's a tip: If there's some sport or activity you both enjoy, this might be a good way to spend some time when you next meet, as both of you are spontaneous, dynamic signs and will likely feel most comfortable bonding over that (if you've found talking/silences has been a bit awkward in the past); usually talk comes naturally when you're already having a good time, and things just go from there.

Also, don't be afraid to be yourself with him - honesty and being true to yourself (not lying) is a virtue that your signs (Sagittarius and Pig) both share, and it's a trait that your guy (as an Aries and Rat) should find appealing.

Finding the courage to pursue things further will also help you to decide if he's more suitable as a friend or boyfriend, because either way the two of you make a very good combination, so even if things don't work out on the dating front, it would still make a dynamic friendship, and one worth keeping. :)
Answered by Lana Va | Oct. 09, 2017 10:09
You are right Erica, i love your reading, but i've probably ruined everything..

As i told him before about my ups and downs that i was facing last year. Also, i did told him that i like him few months ago and he doesn't seem to be okay with that. Some more, it was around when he broke up with his ex-girlfriend. I realised that only when i confessed my "like" feeling towards him.

Now i'm afraid to confess my feeling again, i probably wouldn't do that anymore. It feels like stealing someone else's favourite pizza and ate it, and then they hate you :(

I planned to meet him in this coming December and he is alright with it.

I want to talk to him, know him better yet he seems so cold towards me when we were texting T_T He made me like, i don't know what to talk about with him..
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