I was born on Apr 30 1981, 5:05am, born in Philippines.

Elma,
Do not despair, since help is at hand. Transiting Jupiter conjuncts now your natal Pluto, so your progress and your career will depend on how you manage the very delicate psychological facts that affect your life right now. You stand to benefit, if you come up with a solution to your problems, which is one in 12 years. It would be easier if you look at the whole picture, instead of seeing too many details. It is true that although you do get along with people born in the year of the Snake, there is a prerequisite for this Snake-Rooster relationship so it can work. Because your yearly element was Metal, you could only get along with Earth and Water yearly elements. So a Fire Snake boyfriend was a mismatch. Also keep away from people with Wood elements. Your best match would be a man born 8 years earlier than you, in 1973 (Water Ox), even if he is a widower. Saturn transits through your 8th House, so you won’t get anything from your former partner. In mid next year 2018, transiting Jupiter will enter your 7th House of Marriage, and will help you tie the knot. You had a well aspected natal Uranus in your 7th House, so you want freedom in marriage or in partnership, but you are not prone to divorce. Yet you don’t like your husband to outshine you. Your Midheaven was in Capricorn, so you could be a real estate agent, politician, businesswoman, or work for the Government. Your job needs to offer you security, and it needs to be steady. Transiting Uranus conjuncts now your natal Mars, so at this time you have amazing energy. You also want freedom. You show technical skill, but you could be a bit impulsive. You are classy.