What is your marriage advice to us, my husband was born Aug. 30, 1983 and mine is Nov. 7, 1979

My husband & I now is not doing well most of the time specialy ds year. He have been working too hard but still ending up with financial troubles that I felt he cared much more on money than our family. I came to point that I've been too jealous already thinking that he has somebody else 'coz how can he bear not coming home to us specially when we are fighting. This drives me more crazy, specially I've been cheated already on my past relationships. We don't have kids yet on our own but we both have kids on our previous marriage. He was born on August 30, 1983 and mine is on Nov. 7, 1979. I desperately need your advice. Please help me. Thanks.