Mikko, Sept. 28,1987. My boyfriend was born Dec. 15,1986

Last February, I gave our birthdays here and Amanda from Spain answered that there might be some issues in our relationship so we need to be more tolerant and patient with each other and our relationship will be okay. I've been doing this for almost 2 months now, there's a little improvement but I'm starting to be impatient again because i am really struggling to make our relationship okay again. Is there anything more that I can do to make our relationship work? I'm so scared to talk to him about this because it might start a fight and our relationship will end. Please help me.