Middle name Lin. Born 10/12/1966. will I have enough finances to move into own place 2017?

Abusive partners birthday 12/05/1950. I have been in an abusive relationship for over 7 years, my financial situation kept me trapped in this person's home. I left 2 different times to move in with friends, when the abuse got especially bad, only to have to return to abuser's home because Friends I trusted betrayed my trust and privacy in a bad way and they wanted to move to another state for a job and I didn't want to leave my job, With no job prospect in location they were wanting to move to. Other friend I moved in with unknown to me was in a bad, abusive relationship and the job they said I could get hired at making a good salary, fell through so I again was forced to move back in with this man. I AM respectful to him, I'm helpful to him while having to live at his residence, he is helpful to me on somethings but very abusive, isolating and controlling. I can't sleep at night, his brother that lives with him plays psychologically abusive games on me because I am a safe, non violent person for him to vent his bad days on, I can't take both attacking me, it's like living in a war zone. You never know where or when a bomb is going to drop. My health is suffering, I need to not live in his household anymore. I don't want to have to move back, I want to do this move right, so that he is out of my life permanently. My body, my mind can't take it anymore. This man is a compulsive liar and womanizer too. Please, any advice on dates to apply for a higher paying job, best and luckiest dates to move out, would be much appreciated.