Chinese visa for Iranian in 3rd country

I'm Iranian citizen; I got married with a Chinese girl and I have been studying in PRC almost five years; we came to Malaysia as tourists; I went to the Embassy of China to apply for an entry permit but I was told for Iranian people if don't hold a long term Malaysia entry permit can not apply for any type in Malaysia!
Is there anybody who knows which 3rd asian country I can apply for familyQ type, student X type or other any other types? so far I know I can't apply from Macau or HK.
With best regards