Dear. I am in a dilemma whether to proceed with the divorce.

Actually, your compatible index is quite high according to the prediction. Both of you are very hard-working and have a strong responsibility towards everything. You two want to keep everything in order. The same characters lead to harmonious life.
It might be pityful if you end this relationship. But whether to continue this relationship or not is totally up to you.
If you decide to stick with him, both of you need to change this step-by-step personality and inject a bit of vitality into this relationship to make it sweeter.