Divorce, legal issues, new relationship. Born 9/1/1980

Ex husband born 9/10/1980 also a monkey we been divorcing going for four years now, the process has been so long and nothing to fight over. Both of us are in a new relationship now. I dating an older man born on 9-7-1970 funny the day my x and I married. Lots of numbers , dates are very meaningful and so many coincidence. What is in store for me in career , love, etc