I got Invited to Visit a Chinese woman I am wanting to be with. How can I find out if I can Visit he

I have 2 felonies and the most serious 1 is Reckless Homicide which I was being crazy with my dads gun and he got shot and died in 2002. It is still hard for me but i will live it for the rest of my life. My 2nd Offence was payroll forgery which I got set up for but regardless I got the charge. I have been talking with My Chinese woman for a long time now and we both want to meet but I would REALLY LOVE to meet her in China then Escort to the USA.

If I can't Visit and stay in China is there away I can ask to see if I can come to China just to meet her at the airport then come back to the USA?

I fully Understand that Countries don't want people with felonies coming and doing any kind of harm. I have been out of trouble since 2007 and living my life in a Positive way. I have NO desire to come to China and hurt anyone. I just want to visit a woman for 2-3 weeks. Can anyone give me any advice or Guidance?