i was born October 31, 1956, will i get back with ex girlfriend or does she want to see me?

Ton, if your ex-girlfriend still loves you, she will come back one day. You can wait her as long as you love her. Or you can try to contact her and hear her true ideas. I'm not sure whether she will see you or not. You need to make some efforts to make up.If you don't have feelings on her one day, you can start a new love relationship.

About the your roomate, did you disturb others because of your own things? If yes, you need to give your roomates more spaces. If not, try to communicate with your roomates and figure out the problems. Then you can think about efficient solutions.