Will I be able to find a good job? Will I be able to find the right guy for me?

Rizalina, you are suggested to handle your relationship issue before you start to seek a stable job. It says that your career will be affected if you can’t deal with your relationship very well.

Before you make a decision for the future of your BF and you, you need to ask yourself a question “Do I really love him? Does he love me too?” If you get “Yes” for your relationship, then you may decide to reunite. If you lose your feelings toward him, I would suggest you cut off the relationship with your BF.

However, you need to finish your relationship with your husband too. Don’t let it be a hinder between you and your BF or your future husband. I think you should ask for a divorce. No man will endure his wife still remains in a relationship with another man.