I am Rat and I feel bad all the time because of my married relation.

my husband doesn't try to understand me and he wants me to do only what he wants, I want to do job and I have now part time job but he wants me to leave this job and stay at home making food and taking care baby but I want to do my self job too. What kind of job will be Good for me and how can i convince my husband to do job please can I get some advises? Now I am working in the kitchen in catering. Thank you.