My birthday on 01.05.1971 and my partner 17.12.1974. how is this year going for us?

Vinod, don't worry about this problem so much. After living together for a few year, you two know each other so well. So it's ok for you to live apart temporarily. During that period of time, umderstand and patience will help you solve some problems. Besides, you need to trust her. Trust is also an important element in your love relationship.