Should we still hold on together?

I am a female monkey and my partner is a male horse. After gather lots of informations from different sources, it was mostly stated that monkey and horse can't really get along. Is it really true?? I find it that sometimes we can really get along and sometimes we can't. Why would i feel this way? Does there any monkey and horse couples that can make it through marriage? And how do they manage to get there? I believe there are surely some couples who are female are monkey and male are horse that have been together right?