hello. my lover was born under the sign of the rat, and i under the sign of the pig...

on the chinese zodiac wheel, we are placed beside each other, and on the chart, it is said that we are quite charming. what does this mean for the longevity of our relationship? we have noticed that in public many people give us compliments, but i am not sure if this is a sign of our compatibility. i come from a traditional african family, and she, from a traditional chinese family. our relationship goes against many of the traditions of our families. i love her, but i would like to know if it is worth continuing down this path because there are many hardships ahead and i must be sure that we are 100% compatible. i am afreaid that complications may arise between us and the stars will cease to align in our favor. i would appreciate your input