Should I continue taking road trips this year? and should I go see him?

I have a history of car accidents; many are my fault. I have been driving more carefully. Recently, I had several instances that as I was crossing an interception, I had the fear that some car would speed through the interception at the same time and hit me.

I was told by the teacher at the Temple that car accidents are ways to balance things in my life because it can't be good all the time... ying yang.

Should I be worried? I plan on taking a 200 mile trip to see this guy I met 7-8 years ago, and I have met him in person about 6 or so years ago. Because we live so far apart, we never actively per sue the possibilities. Recently, he invited me to visit him. I plan in going if my dad's surgery goes well on Wednesday, tomorrow.