what about rat and rooster? my wife is a rat - can you help?

Rooster and Rat quarrels a lot. You both have distinctive and different personalities. When you start to quarrel, no one will be the first person to give in. Rooster is a completist. He is weak and irresolute. Rat is smart and realistic. Rooster envies Rat because she is more excellent than him.

It seems that rooster is the one that should be blamed. So rooster should get rid of his bad habits of quarreling and jealousy.