Is this a good year to get marry for a man water ox?

Girlfriend a wood tiger sign. We get along pretty well but sometimes argue / can make up cuz we started to get use too/ understand each others way -- meaning stubbornness . Then realized our different / fire give each other . I want to bond / grow old together forever . We are 39 & 41 years old this year 2014 . Will it work and how? Thanks very much .