Shirley from Raleigh, NC asked: When and where should I seek love?

Hi, I don't know much about signs and stuff, however, you do not say if you are actually looking for love yourself. Asking relatives and friends might not be a good idea. Don't wait for love to stumble on you or pushed towards you. Go get it yourself, you go and look for love and if you make a mistake you'll have no regrets because you did it yourself:love rarely stumbles on people and that's why we have to be looking not the other way around.Don't pay much attention to what sign your partner should be:I'm an earth dragon and supposed to stay away from rabbit, but my hubby is a rabbit and we have 90% compatibility.the 10% difference keeps the flame strong and going. Just go out there,any type of social gathering according to your taste, get involved.

Shirley, I am also 61, divorced since 1995. Children are grown and I am alone. On-line dating hasn't resulted in a lasting match. I don't feel like using my Sunday School class as a place to find Mr. Right, though it's better than the bar scene. I am going to do volunteer work more often, step out of my box and get out there. Good luck in your search. Maybe taking one of those Singles International trips might help. That's my next step. Maybe some people are destined to be alone, unmarried, unattached. You are not alone in feeling that there's got to be more than watching tv alone, riding bike alone, playing with puppy alone. Keep smiling, take good care of yourself, and above all, relax! ~Mary