what's my destiny? when is it turning good. Borned on 17 nov 1960 @ 10am.

It is hard to tell you the whole life future, but only the future of 2014 can be told.
Almost everything is changable this year and the future in general is not so well. Listening to other's words more is good for you on your career. For the lovelife, it is just so so and there is no need to worry about it. Good health is necessary for you, so it is suggested take exercise regularly.