A pig,4/10/59 and ox 2/5/73 Do we have a chance for great love?

I am an female pig falling for male ox.. We hav known each other for more than a year and just recently got together.. we hav much in common. We have an understanding that I have never felt with another man before. When were together its magical. He tells me what he loves about me but doesn't want to be in a relationship.I'm growing finder if him with every moment we're together.. I think he's afraid or isn't listening to his heart where I'm concerned. Is this connection doomed, am I wasting my time and risking my heart by being with him or can this union blossom into blissful happiness ?