I am 4-march-1978 born, she is 20-Oct-1987.Before breakup we had a livein relationship for 3 years. Pls help.

she has left me for another boy but now she again has left that boy. I love her and want her back in my life. if not as a wife then atleast as a friend. she is not willing to speak to me. But i can;t live without her. i love to hear her, love to see her. i always think about her.