hi, im 4th October 1988, and my boyfriend are 10 March 1989, is it ok to get married ?

I don't know how things work in Indonesia, but if at all possible, try living together for one year before getting married. As a Libran Dragon and a Pisces Snake, you both are good-looking, and look even better together. Personally, I'm picking up that you guys have smart conversations. You admire Pisces Snake because of how many people like him and how he is good at judging other people's characters. However, in the long run, I don't see the match resulting in a harmonious marriage. You will both be forced to grow as adults if you decide to pursue the marriage. For instance, you could stand to be more assertive especially when your family or your girlfriends put pressure on you. Your boyfriend could learn to trust you to take care of yourself and not get so jealous over you... and he needs to watch what he promises you (sometimes his plans are bigger than his actions). After a while, however, your attraction to each other might just stop due to the many misunderstandings and fights you have, especially about your jobs and money. If you aren't fighting about your jobs or money, you will have long talks about who is right about this and that, constantly coiled around each other in a battle of wills. You will constantly disagree and pick fights that don't need to happen. Give yourselves more time and test the strength of your attraction. If you still feel the same way a year or two from now, then consult a match maker to do a birth chart to measure your compatibility and identify problem areas. If you do not feel like getting married after all, break things off no matter what he says. Because your attraction to each other is so physical, it's unlikely that you have enough common interests and hobbies to stay friends. He can't stand failure, and your failed relationship will taint you in his eyes always. As friends, he'd get jealous when you start dating again. Good luck!!!!!!!!

You're pretty young to be getting married and settling down this early in your life, even though you are an Earth dragon. I would hold off on marriage. You and he are very young to make such a permanent decision. If you are eager, try living together for a year before getting married. If you aren't able to live together, then you definitely shouldn't think about getting married before the both of you have careers that can support a life together. If you live with family, you two are going to fight and disagree all the time about your jobs and the money. Plus, over time, you will get tired of how your husband makes plans but doesn't follow through. He will get tired of your shopping. If you still want to get married after one year of living together, talk to a relationship professional who can help you with your compatibility issues. Your marriage may be happy, but it may not necessarily be peaceful and harmonious. If you do not get married, don't try to be friends with your boyfriend. You owe it to yourself to meet more people and figure out what you really want out of your life. Best wishes!