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Asked by Ms.Rebecca from china | Mar. 18, 2010 21:11

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Hello,everyone
I am Rebecca. I would like to say something between me and my boyfriend. Last night we quarrelled and i cried a lot. We have been together for 1 year. We love each other but we hurt each other unintentionaly due to our character differences. Sometimes we both feel so heart-breaking that we should break up. But you know, we love each other. It is just the character differences. What should i do? Do you think we will live a happy life if we marry? Thanks a lot for your advice. Really!

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Answered by Ms.Betty | Mar. 18, 2010 21:32

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Hello,Rebecca
I think that you two should talk to each other about the problems you have. It is hard to change one's character but you know if you love each other, you shold compromise. No couple is completely perfect for each other. Most boys and girls fall in love with each other and then make their relationship work. You two should try your best on your relationship, as you said you love each other deep inside. Wish you two happy, sincerely.

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Answered by Ms. Cherry | Mar. 19, 2010 01:30

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Dear Rebecca.
Maybe your current boyfriend is not the one for you. What Ms.Betty said is great. You two should work. But i want to say that love is one thing, being together for the rest of the life is antoher thing. It seems that you two love each other a lot but cannot live together. Lots of boys and girls break up due to character differences. It is just too hard for them to cope and compromise. If you do not leave this one, how can you find another good guy? maybe the next one is better for you. I mean character. Anyway, think twice and follow your heart!

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Answered by Ms.Rebecca | Mar. 20, 2010 00:38

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Thank you Ms.Betty and Ms.Cherry for your kind advice. I will think it over and try my best to make our relationship work.

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Answered by Mrs.Sheila | Apr. 09, 2010 10:40

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Hi Rebecca, Your name means:- Servant Of God Origin: Hebrew
You must be much stronger emotionally, when you show that vulnerability of crying. Your boyfriend gains much knowledge of his power over you and he will keep on using it. Stand up to him when you are in the right, be very fair this is so important. Try to think outside the box. He might be afraid of losing you, so put him to the test.
Good wishes to you. Be strong.

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Answered by Ms.Rebecca | Apr. 10, 2010 03:16

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Hello,Mrs.Sheila
Thanks very much for your advice. My boyfriend and me are much better now. You know, two people in love do have problems, sometimes quarrel or even fight. I donot want to give up one person just due to one quarrel or fight. He was put to tests, unintentional tests however, and it showed that he didnot want to lose me. The case is that he is not as soft as me. He gets mad on something bad to me while i don't think he need to. I am afraid of his madness. It is tough for me to speak to him when he is mad and i am afraid. So i cry a lot. Maybe it's me that should be strong to protect myself.

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