

I'm a female Rat 30 April 1960, married to a Pig 7 August 1947. very happily married & have a relationship with another married man who is a Rabbit 8 May 1951 going on for 4 yrs now. Hubby is fine with it as we have a very strong open relationship, we are soulmates. My question is about this other man, does he love me? his health is 50/50. had by-pass a year ago and feels that he isn't the same person. I love him dearly and told him I'd be there for him. He has a heart of gold, very caring and loving. Devoted father to his kids. He can't always see me because of family commitments which I totally understand. He doesn't support me at all which is also fine yet he does help out from time to time. I love my husband very much and am grateful that he's allowing me to see my other soulmate.
Is there a chance that we will continue seeing each other over a long period? Should I lose him, I will be a complete reck and never recover. At least I have my husband who is incredibly loving, understanding and the perfect husband. My life is so perfect I choose not to lose anybody. Can you give me advice?
Anon