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Asked by Linda from usa | Feb. 07, 2026 11:12

About:Chinese Zodiac Compatibility

Should I continue or get out of this 33 year struggling marriage

Hes year of the dog 03/25/1970
Im year of pig 04/19/1971
Its been a rough journey these 33 years and I am exhausted. Hes had an affair and fell in love but came back to me for ???? Im not sure if we should continue

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Answered by Viola | Feb. 08, 2026 19:12

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The compatibility of you two is plain. I don't think it's worth continuing.

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Answered by Omaiwu | Feb. 13, 2026 15:13

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Ok so I just wanna know. Did you decide to throw the relationship away over a comment section or?...

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Answered by Susan | Feb. 15, 2026 14:06

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Relationships are mostly struggles. They teach us how to grow within ourselves. Marriages are marathons. Marathoniages I guess. They give us opportunities to learn, change and adapt. Only you can make that decision. Don't let anyone else tell you what to do. You'll only be looking for the answers you want to hear to come from someone else.

You have the answer already. If it's not apparent, get out pen and paper. Start writing. Don't stop. Don't review. Just write. After you have finished writing, you'll know. Then take a break. Then come back to it and review. Best of luck to you. You have the answers.

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Answered by Coach | Feb. 15, 2026 23:38

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The easiest thing to do is quit. I've been married more than 50 years. I love her more than ever. But, it is not always easy, especially as we get older, with illnesses and injuries and surgeries getting in the way. We rely on each others help. But along with this comes irritations, fights, disagreements, anger, frustration . . . oh yeah, that's part of being married to. Soooo, Here are the four rules for a successful marriage:
1-A Never Fight over MONEY, MONEY IS A TOOL, BE RESPONSIBLE WITH IT. Pay the bills, Nobody cares what you want, what are you responsible for? Take care of your responsibilities.
1-B If you have Children, they are next. You take care of your kids, Parenting, Social Skills, Food and Clothing, and love them ev very day, even when they deserve a kick in the butt.
1-C after taking care of !A & 1B, You then save Money so that you both can play (Together)
2. Never fight over who you fell in love with, Fight over the stupid. Ex: Wife- I sent you to the store to get coffee idiot, you came home without coffee dipstick, go back and get the coffee Moron. Know that you are going to fight, Make a commitment to REMOVE ALL HATE from any fight, Know that you are going to fight, it can be intense, loud, angry, BUT NO HATE. Learn to Let it go. (My wife cheats on this part because when we had a fight, the next day she walks by me singing the "Let it go" . . . and i'bve lost again!!! Learn to forgive
3. Never "STOP" the Chase. Keep chasing each other. A few months ago, my wife was walking down the hallway with those tight fitting leotards" I leaned as saying uhh huh, that ahhh is still looking good. She stop, looked at me, then said, You are so Blind, to which I replied "aren't ya Glad" Make each other important.
4. Accept your differences, these are what makes each of you Unique!

These rules really do work

Please Note: Betrayal can be forgiven once, but a continued effort to do so is time to say:
"Hit the road Jack"

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Answered by Kr | Feb. 17, 2026 02:51

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Linda, sweetie — if it's been sucky for 33 years, you're exhausted and he's had an affair, do you really need the horoscope to tell you to get out? Leave the loser and start living your best life!

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Answered by samantha | Feb. 17, 2026 02:54

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leave him right now you deserve etter

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Answered by Hope | Feb. 17, 2026 05:40

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Do you guys have kids? cause if you do I say stay for the kids. But, if not maybe don't take advice
from a zodiac website. But if it is plain just spice it up a little bit you know what I mean. wink

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Answered by Spiritual guide | Feb. 17, 2026 05:51

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Yeahhh

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Answered by Payton | Feb. 17, 2026 16:18

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Linda, he cheated on you. This is past the point of the Chinese zodiac. I would leave his ass now, but if your determined to keep it going you should seek a therapist/couples therapist. I hope your alright.

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Answered by Hope | Feb. 17, 2026 16:24

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on second thought, I just read the second about him cheating... I say divorce.

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Answered by Sophia | Feb. 17, 2026 17:56

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Best to end it. You are not his step and fetch or door mat. The trust will never be the same. He should have talked to you about any issues or insecurities before he premeditated being with another. I left mine after 25yrs and it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I’m much happier and healthier. Best of luck.

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Answered by Brooke | Feb. 22, 2026 23:04

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No honey RUN!

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